Monday, March 21, 2011

Strange Feelings

Strange to miss a foreign land.
Strange to dream of a slower pace and rich simplicity.
Strange to know it is a tough place but want it still.
Strange to miss my friends that love like family.
Strange to desire for my children to experience life so unlike here.

Ugnad@ is on my mind.
In my heart.

I miss it.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Africa Items Giveaway!

We are trying to raise the rest of the fees for Daniels adoption.

After reading my beautiful friends post HERE.  I decided to put together a sweet package of African items to give away!

Every dollar given through donation will go straight to paying the lawyer.

If you are wondering about Daniel's adoption story go HERE.

We were blessed with one of the fastest adoptions ever.  God has provided in many ways and we praise Him for it!

We still have a balance to pay of about $10,000.00.

We know the Lord will provide!  He has in so many ways already.

We also know He uses His people to be a part of it all!

What is in the package you wonder????

1.)  One Mens Large "Hope for Uganda" t-shirt
2.)  One Womens Medium "Hope for Uganda" t-shirt
3.)  African made purse/bag.
4.)  African made clutch, made from banana leaves.  (my daughters love these)
5.)  One Paper Bead Necklace made by some beautiful friends in Uganda.


How do you enter the giveaway?

Donate!

Any amount!

Here!





Leave your name and address and in 10 days we will select the winner!

May God bless you for living out James 1:27 today!




Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Big Family Thoughts

Justin and I had a great time toting Daniel around Florid@ and having people oooh and awww.  They would start to tell us how fast it goes, and to enjoy it, and how hard the toddler years will be, followed by "you just wait" with an overwhelmed sigh.  Until....they asked if he is our first.  [this was our favorite part]  We would beam and say no, actually he is number 6!  They would gasp and suddenly become speechless as if we asked them to take a few home and raise them. :)  Some people would being to ask more questions about why we would do this and it would usually end with them sharing some part of their heart that was connected with adoption or their relationship with God, and others would just kinda walk away.

What I really want to tell people is how absolutely awesome it is!  Having many children is truly a blessing from God.

There are 10 little arms ready to hold the latest treasure.  10 little feet to grab a diaper or a binki.  5 little faces to talk to him while mommy makes dinner.  There is someone always ready to give love or help out.

This is F.A.M.I.L.Y.!

And I am in love.

And so are they.


Sunday, March 13, 2011

Thursday, March 10, 2011

~thankful/grateful/love list for today~

~my 6 [6!] children.  i have weird thing with even numbers so that makes me happy[er].

~that God spoke clearly about Daniel - thank you God, I can not imagine life with out him

~my husband.  leader of our home.  my best friend.  my lover.  my partner in this crazy life.

~friends that have stepped in at a moments notice to play mommy and daddy.  praying God's rich blessing upon them.

~clean water

~healthy babes

~access to health care

~a good education for my children

~access to the Word of God - the light unto our path

~encouraging friends and family

~watching others step out in faith [fav]

~adoptions all over the place

~airplanes to take us to loved ones

[many more but time to feed Daniel...]  What are you thankful/grateful/in love with/for today? :)

Blessings and Stretching

Daniel is a pure joy.  Easily comforted, prefers to be held [which I love], travels great and is just a pure blessing. I am so thankful!

We are still here in Florida.  Waiting on paperwork.  Waiting has never been my strong suit.  Ever.  I want to wait with grace and love those around me but my heart is at home.  I feel like I just got home.  I had, really.

The biggest stretch for me going to Africa was leaving my treasures.  That is/was my step of faith, trusting that God has them covered emotionally, physically and spiritually, even while I am gone.  I felt like I prepared for that in prayer and scripture for the trip.  This time, being gone a week, has been tough.  I know the Lord is stretching me and teaching me through this as well.  He is in control no matter what, no matter the situation and no matter the circumstance.  He is worthy to be trusted and obeyed.

I am so thankful we serve a living God that speaks through His word and has a purpose for each one of our lives!  He is ever molding and making us, transforming us.

2 Corinthians 3:18 (English Standard Version)

18And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.

[please pray for the paperwork shuffle - thank you]

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Welcome Daniel Allder Vaughan!

Time to share.

First I need to start by saying I am overwhelmed with gratitude and can hardly type through tears so bear with me while I share how we came to be the parents of Daniel.

Last Spring Justin and I felt called to be open to children here in the US that needed homes.  We have been working with a Christian Adoption Consultant, Tracie Loux, since March.  We decieded to go with her because she understood our heart and she loves the Lord with all her heart.  Our biggest fear with domestic adoption was stepping in front of couples with infertility, ect.  We wanted to open our home up to those that needed homes.  We have had many situations come up but never felt the Holy Spirits leading, until now.

Before I left for Africa we were told about a situation of a young woman here in the U.S., pregnant and needing to give her baby up through adoption.  There was a family in place but when they found out it was a boy, they backed out.  We heard about it, prayed about it and submitted our info., trusting God.  I left for Africa, lead a 13 day mission trip to take the gospel and love on the orphaned of Uganda.


Wednesday after arriving home I received a phone call from the agency trying to place the baby.  Birth mom loved our info (which was a letter with the gospel message in it and a pic of our family).  She is not a Christian but was very drawn to our family!  Justin and I nearly hit the floor - whoa - now what?  They explained the outrageous fees and we both started backing away.  How could we do that in 2 weeks?  God had given Justin a verse earlier in the day and it left him confused, Daniel 3:7 "Therefore, as soon as they heard the sound of the horn, flute, zither, lyre, harp and all kinds of music, all the nations and peoples of every language fell down and worshiped the image of gold that King Nebuchadnezzar had set up." It didn't make sense at first so he thought... "well maybe it was Daniel 3:10 "- they are basically the same verse!  As we sat talking about how horrid the fees are, how sad that was and that, was when Daniel 3:7 came to light for us.  That we were not to bow to the "golden image" of finances that is so common in our culture.  We are to stand, trust God - no matter what.  We left the conversation agreeing to pray and seek God through this.  That night a friend was thanking me for encouraging her to go to bible study (that started while I was gone) and she said she was learning how our culture is so much like Babylon and we are all bowing to the golden image.  I just stared at her.....I could not believe what had just come out of her mouth.  I never talk to anyone about the book of Daniel - like ever!  So we called our pastor and asked him to pray and he had just studied the passage in Mark 14 where the woman poured the oil worth a year of wages over Jesus head making everyone mad because "that could have gone to the poor" - Jesus rebuked them.  This spoke so deaply to my heart coming from Africa and knowing where "that kind of money" can go.  We choose to move forward knowing that God would have to do a TON to make this happen!

We had several amazing God-fearing friends and family praying for us at this point [thank you!]!

Our social worker was already scheduled to be here on Sunday (an appt in the making since March of '10 but she came 4 days later!- ONLY GOD!).  The kids 1 year check ups were scheduled months ago for that Tuesday and all of our paper work will be completely updated - ONLY GOD!

God began, through many cirumstances, to to show us that He would provide for this adoption and we are to be obedient.  Even in the face of time and money, trust God, not just say it but do it.  God has got our back and even more, he has Daniel's.

Here we sit.  We flew all day, drove straight to the foster moms house (who is awesome and I love her) and now we have our latest treasure, a gift, straight from heaven.  Seriously.  Praise God, He is worthy!

[oh and you may be wondering how the other 5 feel?  ask them.  each of them beam.  they have been praying, they love adoption and they love love love having a big family!]